Barefoot Ben

feetBen moved into my flat after Mark and the Gang left to go travelling with some imaginary money at the end of our run as art students. He was sort of  pseudo Buddhist, but in a soft drug induced manner and and therefore slightly volatile. His girlfriend had recently been caught cheating on him with some other smelly hippy and he fled the caravan they were living in and took to the streets. He was excellent at paying his share of gas and electricity and even bought good sausages from the butchers and cooked them for us at breakfast. He was a really nice guy, but tragically, drugs had taken their toll. We were twenty two! He used to walk around barefoot, banging on about how feet grow their own leather if allowed to harden and decided it was a good idea to put an OM symbol tattoo on his forehead on the day that my Dad came down to visit.

One night he sat on my bed crying for hours about all the bad things that had happened in his life. He passed out fully clothed and eventually so did I. At some point in the morning I was pretending to be sleeping still as Ben put his hands in his trousers for a good scratch. On pulling his hand out, I was presented with the most potent and offensive smell I’ve ever received from another human. He had a sniff. Shortly afterwards he asked me if he could use the shower and I had to explain to him that as a resident he was free to use the shower all along. He went on a massive ketamine bender, did a load more crying and left to go to Exeter or somewhere to make a probably shit film with some probably shit, unfocused dreamers.

I got home from work one night to find a load of nomadic, crusty traveller hippies and a smelly dog in the flat. I love dogs, but it was no pets allowed and there was no garden . Ben was actually still out clubbing, and had simply let that bunch of flakes in for me to find and gone back out. And there they remained for several noisy and smelly days drinking Special Brew for breakfast, lunch and dinner and making a fucking mess of my flat.

There are only so many inebriated conversations about the existence of aliens, angels or conspiracy theories I’m happy to witness from a post work sober perspective (none, really). They smoked roll ups constantly, whilst discussing how “the system” (the same system that made their life of constant partying possible) had failed them, seemingly without the need to ever sleep. They were sort of a bit vegan-ish, but also ate whatever was going free. They were pseudo-environmentalist but left empty cans of cheap booze all over the place without considering the location of a recycle bin. They made vague hints of being against animal cruelty whilst treating a dog to an existence of extreme passive smoking and holding it’s poos and wees in for ages.

After they left, Ben and I resumed our strange existence relatively undisturbed until he left for pastures new, but I lived in constant fear of what I may find on returning home from work.  I was exhausted and in need of some incredibly dull normality. I should have returned to my home town where I was welcome, missed and would have been looked after, at least for a few novelty days. Instead, I found myself in Worthing on the basis that I had one friend there and it was vaguely near to Brighton. I  lasted one week there, mainly asleep.


Jelly Mould Mark


Mark was a friend throughout Art College with whom I lived with in the third year of our course fairly successfully. We remained friends throughout this strange and transitional final year and chose to live together with others for our final summer after graduation. In hindsight, I should not have moved in with two male friends and their new girlfriends, said gf’s being eighteen and in no way bored yet by all the pretentious bullshit flying about the place.

I was the only house mate to have a regular job. Importantly, I needed to maintain my employment for reasons of not wanting to starve to death, an alien concept to everyone else around me. I would return home from the pub I worked in at past midnight to find the electricity meter had all been drained, as had the gas. The fuckers had even used up the emergency instead of purchasing more when it was their turn, leaving me to sit in the dark, with no entertainment or way of winding down and with no way of cooking food. They, on the other hand, were lying around on josstick and spliffy stinking rugs upstairs, with a ton of candles on and some shit guitar or bongo playing for entertainment. When we first moved in there was a bed in my room that had a mattress on. Mark’s room had no mattress so he took mine. When I inevitably found out and kicked off about it, he reasoned that there were two of them and only one of me, so they deserved the mattress. I screamed at them (maybe) to contact the landlord and get a fucking mattress sorted, which they did, I think.

Yet again in my life, with hindsight I should have predicted nothing less than a messy outcome from getting too close to these people. Mark once set up a shit poetry group in our third year, whose only members were himself, myself and our other female housemate at the time. I hasten to add that I think I was merely there at the right/wrong time rather than being an active club member. I certainly had no poetry to contribute. Those other two fuckers did though and were so concerned with getting their innermost bullshit out there onto any ears that would have it that my lack of input was entirely unnoticed. Mark read out his most cherished piece, which was titled “Jelly Mould”. I think it began something like: “I am the jelly mould…” and the dominant concept was one of being moulded, like jelly, which is liquid and free, but put into a mould and then into the fridge, sets and becomes moulded to the will of the person who designed the mould and/or the person who bought the mould, say perhaps a mum who is hosting a kids birthday party in a few hours or whatever.

penis mould

I began cathartically writing to my friend in London about my ordeal and left the writing pad in the lounge whilst at work.  Mark predictably read it because he was well accustomed to going into my room and taking things that he liked, so reading a notebook that I left in the lounge was no biggy. Apparently, he did not like being described as being an arty little cunt who’s poems were shit and who’s feet stank.

After this I only had one more psychedelic techno bongo party in the flat to get through until they all left me to go travelling around Thailand with some imaginary money. I think Mark apologised for being a massive cock hole before he left but I was so sedated by this point that I can barely remember and may have dreamt it up as a coping mechanism.